"You can never truly enjoy Christmas until you can look up into the Father's face and tell Him you have received His Christmas gift." – John R. Rice
I wrote a blog a couple of years ago on whether you should decorate for Christmas before or after Thanksgiving. I concluded that everyone should decorate when they want to, but I would stick to after Thanksgiving. I usually spent the Friday after Thanksgiving decorating, and the weekend was reserved for that task when I was working.
WHAT HAPPENED? Last year, I decorated a few days before Thanksgiving; this year, due to physical limitations, it took me three days to decorate the week before Thanksgiving. Fall is one of my favorite seasons of the year, and I like my house's yellow, orange, and brown colored decorations. However, I was over it this year and wanted to put Christmas up.
I have shared in the past that I did not decorate for Christmas for many years after losing my son in a failed adoption attempt. Today, many years later, I look forward to putting the decorations up. When I am done, I feel satisfied in my warm, cozy house. I collect Santas and snowmen and love looking at them. I put three trees up so I can enjoy the lights, and my home just feels good!!
Decorating before Thanksgiving is fine and dandy, but it is a change. Any of you who know me know that I hate change, so why is this one okay? I have thought about that for days now. I am actually enjoying this change. I believe that I chose this change, so it was easier for me to accept. I did have second thoughts while decorating. Am I breaking protocol? What would Mom say? And finally, who cares?
Some changes are forced upon us, and we make them begrudgingly. An example of that is my moving to Fresno. I moved here after my mom died to take over the family business. I didn’t want to come, but I felt obligated. I cried the first two years I was here. When I finally got over myself and embraced the change, I found that I was VERY happy in Fresno. I am blessed in so many ways. I am reminded of this journey every Thanksgiving.
Examples of other changes are exciting but provide a little trepidation. Getting married, starting a new job, and having children are a few of the exciting changes that are made in life.
You may be facing a change in this holiday season. Some have recently lost a loved one who will not be present this Christmas. You might be going someplace new for Christmas (maybe the in-laws?) Hang on tight! The changes you must make this year may be complex but may lead to something extraordinary.
All this being said, don’t forget the reason for the season: the birth of Jesus Christ!!!
Facing change during Christmas can be challenging, especially when it disrupts cherished traditions or expectations. Here are some ideas to help navigate these changes while maintaining the spirit of the season:
1. Embrace New Traditions
Be Open to Adaptation: Create new traditions that align with your current circumstances. This could be a simplified celebration, a new activity, or a focus on gratitude.
Involve Loved Ones: Collaborate with family or friends to create shared experiences, like cooking together, volunteering, or crafting holiday decorations.
2. Focus on What You Can Control
Celebrate in Small Ways: If change limits the usual festivities, focus on small joys like baking cookies, watching holiday movies, or lighting a candle in reflection.
Practice Gratitude: Reflect on the positive aspects of the season and write down things you're thankful for, even amid change.
3. Seek Connection
Reach Out: Spend time with loved ones, whether in person, by phone, or virtually, to combat feelings of loneliness or isolation.
Help Others: Volunteering or giving back to the community can bring purpose and joy during uncertain times.
4. Prioritize Self-Care
Acknowledge Your Emotions: Allow yourself to feel and process emotions like sadness, disappointment, or anxiety. It's okay to grieve changes.
Find Moments of Rest: Take time to relax, pray, or meditate, focusing on peace and renewal.
5. Keep the Spirit of Christmas Alive
Celebrate the Deeper Meaning: Reflect on the spiritual and emotional significance of Christmas, such as love, hope, and renewal.
Engage in Acts of Kindness: Spread joy by giving small gifts, writing heartfelt cards, or simply offering encouragement to others.
6. Plan Ahead for Flexibility
Set Realistic Expectations: Adjust your plans to accommodate the change and avoid overcommitting yourself.
Stay Flexible: Be willing to pivot if new challenges arise, keeping the focus on meaningful moments rather than perfection.
7. Seek Support if Needed
Lean on Faith or Community: Attend religious services or community gatherings that provide comfort and connection.
Talk About It: Share your feelings with a trusted friend, family member, or counselor if the change feels overwhelming.
Navigating change during Christmas can open doors to growth, creativity, and deeper connections, even in the face of uncertainty.
(Source for ideas - Chat GPT}
Enjoy yourself this Christmas season.
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